Yep!! Self

Hey there, so as I was going to bed and praying and realized I was smiling. I stopped and had a though, like wow!! for the first time I’m not trying to know every little detail of what I’m doing. Normally when I start a new venture I try to know every little detail, how the outcome will be, will it workout or not, what title should I put? I’m literally writing this without a topic. Its so freeing knowing that I’m doing this for me and no pressure on the details or the outcome. The problem with focusing on the outcome mostly it became overwhelming and I’d just drop it. So this my friends is amazing.

So if you are like me on trying to figure everything out before starting the journey, join me in this venture where we just go as the flow takes us, of-course with eyes open so we don’t miss opportunities on the way but not focusing on the outcome before learning during the journey first. It is good to do due diligence when starting anything but at a certain point realizing that you can know everything is good too.

One day I was listening or perhaps watching YouTube videos and one of the speakers ( dont remember his name), said the problem with most young people want to go from 1 to 100 without counting the other numbers. Life is a journey, meaning you pass through different roads some bumpy and some smooth. Sometimes you even need to climb the mountain and it doesn’t happen overnight. Yea I am guilty of that too, thinking what I’m doing will do go smoothly and will be done in no time or profitable immediately. I always heard the concept of traveling through life but it never really resonated with me. It still sometimes doesn’t till I remind myself that sheshalom its not a splint, take a deep breath and look around and see how far you’ve gone. You can’t give up now and let fear defeat you.

Anyway so my friend on this journey that we are both taking of self education, motivation and growth lets keep each other in check. To make sure we both don’t forget that this life is worth living and can be awesome if we just take our time to realize how great we are. To stop waiting for other people to tell us but to look in the mirror everyday and say to ourselves I’m great and awesome. Yea I also have those days when everything seems to be going wrong, wondering why I even exist. As we go on knowing each other better I’ll share more of my stories and I hope you share yours as well. Just know if you are frustrated you’re not alone but you are the only one who can get yourself out of whatever it is.

Alright friend, as always which its just been a few days please leave a comment below and sign up for email notifications so we can be in touch and not miss each other.

self growth

Hie there, I’m back with my second post still with no idea where this will lead to. Like I mentioned in my first post being vulnerable and sharing my thoughts has always been a very had thing for me. So this is a new venture and would appreciate any feedback. Alright so as I’m still getting a hang of writing and sharing I have to say some of the ideas I will be sharing will not be mine. In this process of self growth, development and value I will take a page out of some great people out there who seem to have mastered the whole idea of self educating, growth, and hey wealth we all want that ( I do anyway).

Learning can be hard, but it is a very necessary thing in life to grow. I always thought I would go very with school. I enjoyed learning but not the quizzes and papers which is ironic now I’m here writing. Yea so exams and whatnots I didn’t care much of them but enjoyed the whole process of getting new information, ideas, knowledge. I always thought school was the only place I could get it, get the feeling of witnessing as my intellect grows. It wasn’t until I couldn’t go anymore I realized that I have more options. Learning is all about the will, the desire to look for what you want to know, the desire to grow can make you look till you find. I was so amazed by how much information is out there waiting for me.

As you can see I have no direction in this post but I’m going for it anyway. Here’s a thought, if you are like me who with different reasons you didn’t go further with school. I will tell you this, that is not the end. It took me a while to accept my circumstance, tried to justify to my friends like I’m okay with how things turned out, even tried to play the victim just to get some remorse From friends. But guess what! it doesn’t matter what they show me, I was the one feeling it so even though my friends felt sorry or understood all the excuses I was telling them, they were not in my shoes or your friends are not in your shoes to make you feel better. So I tell you this friend, go out there look for information, read books, watch YouTube channels depending on what knowledge you want to broaden.

Anyway we are still pretty new friends so I will take my time and try to reveal myself in each post so we can know each other better.

Send me and email or leave a comment below so I know I’m not alone on this journey of self growth.


Hi there, my name is Sheshalom and I would like us to be friends. you see I’m getting on this journey of raising my self value. Most times I forget that I need to value myself higher first for the rest of the world to see my value.

During this process I want to get on the journey with you and see if we can encourage each other. Life becomes easier with its being travelled with others, otherwise it becomes lonely. To tell you the truth I have attempted to start a blog before but I had no idea what to say or do. I have attempted to start different businesses but I ended up not thinking I can do it.

Self doubt is one of the worse things I have always had in the back of my mind. I’m sure I am not the only one who struggles with self doubt. The worse is being so ambitious and knowing that if I can just push myself harder I can do it. What if? There is is, the self-doubt comes running and Sheshalom ends up giving up. Most people we want to quit before we fail entirely. This makes us not to try at all. I don’t know why you are here but I believe you stumbled on this page because you are looking for more in your life. Thats exactly what I want, I could lie and say my life is perfect, i value myself very highly and I make a bunch of money. That would all be lies, as I’m writing I have no job, I have less that $500 to my name, been sleeping at 6 am to wake cup at 2pm so I can just lose time. This is not a life of someone who’s valued herself on a higher level.

So join me on this journey, to learn how to improve my life and of course yours as well. How can I become confident in myself? I am very cautious when it comes to sharing about my life but I want to take this opportunity with you my new friend so you get to know me and I you.